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10-25-2007
Good friends to the rescue
Jim Austin
Years of practice have made
me good at afternoon naps.
Flat on my back on the bed, a
blanket pulled to my chin, and
I'm gone for an hour. But last
Saturday, as sleep closed in, I
was shocked bolt upright:
There was a crash, a dozen
thumps, a cry of pain. I leaped
up, grabbed my glasses,
scuffed into shoes.
At the top of the stairs, my
heart almost stopped. My
Anne was lying at the bottom
on her back, groaning and sobbing.
She'd slipped and fallen
down the whole flight.
At her side I asked where
she was hurt. "Ice!" was her
answer. "Ice!" She'd jammed a
toe and bent a finger as she
plummeted down on her back.
Urging her not to move, I emptied
trays and made two ice
packs. "Where else?" I asked.
Through continued gasps, she
said, "Bottom of my spine."
Anne is a woman with awesome
pain tolerance. Without
anesthesia, she toughs her
way through root canals, and
even colonoscopies. That's why
her sobs and groans really
shook me. "I'm calling 911," I
said, and she didn't object.
Two years ago, that call
would have meant an anxious
wait for the Cooperstown ambulance:
our own fire department
had let its first-responder
unit fall apart.
Thank God, that's all
changed. The new fire company
has nearly a dozen first-responders
on its roster, all of
them with fresh, extended
training.
Within five minutes after
my call, the first help arrived:
our friend Wolfgang Merk
from right across Oaks Creek.
Wolf's a contractor, but also a
Cooperstown fireman and a
skilled EMT.
"Wolf's pulling in the driveway,"
I told Anne. "Get the tissue
box," she said. "Now I'm
really going to cry." And indeed
she did (and I came close
to it) as that calm, kind man
knelt down beside her.
"My job, Anne," said Wolf,
"is to hold your head motionless
till the other guys get here
with a neck brace and back
board. If damage has been
done, we don't want it made
worse." Wolf then lay on his
stomach behind her head and
held it steady, waiting.
But not for long. Within
minutes, five Fly Creek first
responders had arrived, one
driving their truck full of
emergency equipment. As
each of these neighbors arrived,
their faces full of concern,
our emotions welled
again.
Here came Pam Deane, and
then Matt Lionetti, Linda Coe,
Pat Schultz, and Betty Staffin.
Anne went through a lot of tissues.
With gentle skill, the crew
got a neck brace on Anne, then
rolled her to her side, slid the
back board under her, and
strapped her securely to it. At
each small step in the procedure,
they asked her to describe
any change in pain.
And, bless them, they also
joked gently with both of us,
easing our worry. Soon the
Cooperstown ambulance arrived,
and Kevin Preston and
his team took charge of the
case.
"When they lifted me and
carried me out to the ambulance,"
Anne said later, "it was
like one of those trust-fall exercises,
where you close your
eyes and fall backward, trusting
that the people behind you
will catch you. No worry. I felt
I was floating along in the best
of hands."
In our car, I followed the
ambulance to an emergency
room so busy that Anne and
several others had to be parked
on gurneys outside the regular
cubicles. But friendly, familiar
faces surrounded us there, too.
Sam Hoskins, who'd once done
fine work on Anne's sprained
knee, got extra blankets and
spread them over her. He
laughed warmly when Anne
told him, "I didn't bang the
knee, Sam."
Another Fly Creeker, Dr.
Chuck Howarth, stopped by
repeatedly to apologize for
Anne's being in the hall.
Chuck, an engineer before
medical school, is slowly
changing the Fly Creek schoolhouse
into a home for himself,
Jennifer, and their new baby.
They're living in the schoolhouse
as Chuck works on it,
and he put us at ease with
very funny stories about the
experience.
After a bit, Anne was
wheeled to x-ray, and then
back and into a cubicle of her
own. The films, thank God,
showed nothing broken.
"You're just in for a very painful
week or so," said the doctor.
Relieved, we were handed
the release papers and a couple
days' supply of industrialstrength
pain capsules.
Then came a final kindness.
When the nurse who brought
a wheelchair saw that Anne
had arrived without shoes,
socks, or coat, he got socks for
her and draped a blanket
around her shoulders. "I'll
bring the blanket back tomorrow,"
I promised. He smiled
and shrugged. "When you have
time," he said.
Back home, Anne slept the
night on the couch to avoid the
stairs. The next day, the flood
of kindness continued: telephone
calls, visits, gifts of food.
The capper was the arrival of
Portabello Restaurant's Josh
Kantor with a hamper full of
delicious meals for us.
Anne is up and hobbling
around now (standing, she
says, is far better than sitting);
and she's sporting blacks,
blues, and maroons that would
please a tattoo artist. Both of
us are still awed by the outpouring
of goodness by friends
and neighbors.
When our British friend
Michael Thrower faces effusive
thanks for something he's
done, he always deflects any
praise. He does it by imitating
an English comic whose tag
line for many jokes is a pious,
cloying "People are kind."
And indeed they are, Mike.
They truly are.
Read about Jim Atwell's
new book, ``From Fly Creek--
Celebrating Life in Leatherstocking
Country'' at JimAtwell.
com).
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